What is there to do when you're bored?

instead of "doing something", just talk...Take a long bath together or snuggle in bed and just talk. There is this book out called "Building stronger relationships by asking all the right questions" by Dr. Allen R. Zimmerman. You'll be surprised by the type of questions in this book....when you start to ask these questions, you're relationship goes to another level...that should get you out of a rut....it helped me.