Where should I go to find my next guy?

I'm beginning to notice a pattern in the guys I like: they are ALLLL from the drama club (which is something I happen to be very into; drama and theatre, I mean). Something else I've noticed about these guys is that they've all been fairly self-centered; they think a lot of themselves, and frankly they've made me do all the work and/or acted like they liked me and then made a complete 180. Is there anywhere I can look for a guy who's more straightforward? I'd like it if he wasn't stupid, as well, so, as much as I hate to be stereotypical, the football field at my school is probably way out. Suggestions?